It’s so hard to look the way we want to look in a world which demands certain standards of beauty from women. There have been improvements over recent years, but we’re still a long way from a society in which people are free to look and feel the way they desire without enduring comments about the way other people would want us to look. The important thing is that you shouldn’t cave into these requests. You should have an appearance which works for you. That’s the most important thing. You should look the way you want to look. Wear makeup or don’t wear it; wear a certain style of clothes or don’t.